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42 And Plus Size Woman


I am a twice divorced plus size woman,


 with my second marriage ending about a month ago. My size was a factor in my first marriage but not in my second. 
I'm worried that with so many people who only see someone as hot if she went to the barbie factory.
Are there any men out there that will actually get to know me? 
I carry myself confidently, I don't make excuses for why I'm a plus size and I love my curves. I'm wondering if I have any hope of meeting a good man who will accept me as I am. I'm used to the disapproving looks - you can see it in their eyes and their face that they judge me when they see me. 
Do I give up on finding a good man that loves me for me? 
I found a site where some women said that most of the men that are interested in them are "fetish" seekers. I definitely don't want to be someone's fetish. Even though I love who I am,
 it's disheartening to hear most men equating skinny with hot. 
Oct 5, 2013